Whether by choice or circumstance, many households run on a single income. This requires careful budgeting but offers its own rewards. Here's how to make one income work for your family without feeling stretched or stressed.
The Single Income Reality
Common scenarios:
- One partner is a stay-at-home parent
- One partner is studying or retraining
- Job loss or health issues reduced to one income
- Early career where one income can't support full-time work
- Choice to live on one income while saving the other
ℹ️ The Value of Non-Working Partners
A stay-at-home parent provides services worth £30,000-50,000+ annually if you had to pay for childcare, cooking, cleaning, and household management. This isn't "not working."
Budgeting Strategies for One Income
1. Know Your Numbers Precisely
With less margin for error, you need accurate tracking:
- Track every expense for 3 months
- Categorize into needs vs. wants
- Identify your true minimum expenses
- Calculate exactly what's left after necessities
2. Prioritize Ruthlessly
Order your budget by importance:
- Four Walls: Food, utilities, shelter, basic transport
- Insurance: Health, life, car (especially important with one earner)
- Debt minimums: Stay current on all debts
- Small emergency fund: Even £1,000 provides a buffer
- Everything else: After the above is covered
Create Your One-Income Budget
Use our budget calculator to see exactly how one income covers your household.
3. Build a Bigger Emergency Fund
With only one income, job loss is more catastrophic:
- Aim for 6-12 months of expenses (not 3-6)
- This is your top financial priority
- Keep it accessible but separate from spending accounts
4. Get the Right Insurance
Single-income households need protection:
- Life insurance: Essential on the earner, valuable on non-earner (childcare costs)
- Income protection: Replaces income if earner can't work
- Critical illness: Lump sum for serious diagnoses
Making the Non-Working Partner Feel Valued
Financial Practices
- Equal access to all household money
- Equal personal spending allowances
- Joint say in all financial decisions
- Avoid language like "my money"
Acknowledgment
- Recognize the economic value of household work
- Don't treat household contributions as less important
- Both partners "work"—just in different ways
⚠️ The Trap to Avoid
The non-earning partner asking "permission" to spend creates an unhealthy dynamic. Agree on budgets together, then both spend within them freely.
Reducing Expenses on One Income
Areas where single-income households often save:
- Childcare: Major savings from at-home parent
- Commuting: One person working = half the transport costs
- Work expenses: Less spending on clothes, lunches, coffees
- Food: More time to cook reduces takeaways and convenience food
- Services: Time to DIY things you'd otherwise pay for
When Single Income Is Temporary
If one partner is studying or job hunting:
- Set a clear timeline and expectations
- Track progress toward returning to work
- Maintain skills and connections
- Plan the budget transition for when income resumes
Living on One Income by Choice
Some couples live on one income while banking the other:
- Accelerates savings and investment goals
- Proves you can survive on less (security)
- Enables earlier retirement or career flexibility
- Reduces lifestyle inflation
About iBudget
iBudget helps couples and families take control of their finances with simple, collaborative budgeting tools. Track spending, set goals, and build wealth together.
Start Your Budget
